How to do when sex lack of pleasant?

How to do when sex lack of pleasant?  

People tend to think of sexual pleasure is the lack of "patent" women, but also have a few men say they lack of pleasure in, especially when ejaculation man telling their some very harmonious relationship between husband and wife, family full of happiness, in the past several years when ejaculation, "a pleasure" "can reach climax," but then somehow, what felling also have no.

To say they had before the pleasant sensation, and when ejaculation afterward it disappeared, should belong to secondary ejaculation, as for lack of feeling has never experienced the pleasure ejaculation ejaculation seems to belong to primary feeling missing. Their life is often no change, no sicken, not a marriage outside love, no quarrel, also did not work nervous or change, even in the genitourinary tract and spiritual neurological examination are not found, doctor seems unable to explain this phenomenon. This is really rare and interesting situation, clinical consulting work always meet this kind of problem.

Although the patient's sexuality normal, erection, also can ejaculation, but still not completely ruled out neurological problems. Most people are "ejaculation" and "climax" equate, there are some difference between actually. Ejaculation is a reflection of spinal cord central control activities, and climax is sparked by the ejaculation of cerebral cortex somatosensory a consciousness, in other words, the ejaculation occurs in spinal cord and climax occurs in the brain, therefore, climax depends on the spinal cord thalamus beam intact. The only feeling of ejaculation lack reasonable explanation is neurological damage affected responsible for the particular nerve climax feelings without harm other channels, spinal cord thalamus beam. Early or partial multiple sclerosis damage can bring this effect.

Another possible reason is prostatic hyperplasia, body also can reduce the climax of felling. The so-called "split climax" means the ejaculation of pure period maintain complete line but penile root, a bulbocavernosus muscle did not appear shrink. Then will happen and the spill semen without pleasure rather than a normal with rhythmic bulbocavernosus muscle contraction of sperm injection. "Split in those who are accustomed to ejaculation ejaculation man tried to curb see more, because they always near to suppress the last moment to ejaculation ejaculation reaction, but his often only achieve partial success, namely suppresses ejaculation process rather than pure process, the results exhaust emission sperm is rather than injection and ejaculation feels natural can never occur. The elderly weakened muscle contraction, therefore also will appear this kind of problem. Exercise pubis coccyx muscle, taking DanCanPian etc promoting blood circulation to remove blood stasis drugs to change to enhance sexual brain blood circulation may be feeling a certain help.

If we eliminate all possible physical reasons, then another kind of explanation is the patient has certain psychological factors. The feeling of the ejaculation can evoke for "pleasant sense", which depends heavily on the psychological factors. There are kinds of ambivalence to sex for sexual pleasure, there are kinds of unsolved crimes or guilt, unhappy childhood and adolescence and the sexual experience about ejaculation unpleasant experiences can inhibit the cerebral cortex to ejaculation. Happy reaction The man with obsessive-compulsion personality more likely to have this kind of situation. Detailed knowledge of the patient's sexual history, sexual attitudes, traumatic experience and guilt for sex to identify such as existing psychological factors. If undertake deep inner conflict often time-consuming psychological analysis, and therapeutic value also limited. Sex therapy should try to adopt those more practical psychotherapy type, then not only to patients have mastered all sorts of information is introduced, and the related to deal directly with the psychological factors, and efforts to solve these problems as soon as possible.