How to eliminate the first sex phobia?

How to eliminate the first sex phobia?

 

Before marriage formation of this fear, asked her to marry as a helpless burdens. So, the new night of first sexual intercourse, often failed because of fear of the bride. There are also young women under the influence of feudal ideology is too deep, always think sleeping is a low-level dirty, dirty, intercourse, pregnancy, it's more to enjoy, suffer, and so on. All the anxiety and fear of the mind is its own weaving. Wait until the wedding night sex prone to anxiety and fear, leading to vaginal spasm, the penis cannot insert, dyspareunia, serious will come out of coma caused by sexual intercourse.

 

Of some people's phobias, is not a factor, but that the body may be chronic. This people of sexual instinct is exists of, sexual desire also is strongly of, can because lack necessary of sexual knowledge, does not is understanding sex on chronic what has no effect, has more large effect, lest sexual rendezvous hurt body, or increased condition, on sexual intercourse will produced Shang of fear emotional, this emotional if does not note overcome, on has may makes love of flame slowly cooling, lane bad, also will caused both feelings of cracks.

 

Bride first to master knowledge of sexual fear. Stupid frightened and disturbed, knowledge and security refused to fear. Newly married couples and prospective bride and groom the best common reading some books about sexual knowledge, especially the prospective bride, but also to ascertain, responses and some physiological, knowledge. Doing so can break the mystery, to accept one another and mutual understanding.

 

Life to be a distraction. To find a way to transfer objects to their attention away from the fear somewhere else to go, the effect of this approach is quite good. Groom not impatient, otherwise it will exacerbate fears, to be more gentle, considerate, caressing and patience. Prior to the sexual intercourse, and exchange some more sexual awareness and, say a little more familiar looks, slowly, there are steps to stimulate sexual desire and sexual intercourse, do not be vulgar, reckless moves, not to rush to sexual intercourse. In the process of intercourse, shown tolerance, thoughtful, caring, so fears of disease.

 

Initial sexual life because of too much fear and coma, is a "phobia". This situation is mainly caused by the lack of knowledge. Normal to the knowledge about the sex life of the small, fear of sexual activity has puzzled, imagined terrible, painful sexual intercourse, bleeding. Before marriage formation of this fear, asked her to marry as a helpless burdens. So, the new night of first sexual intercourse, often failed because of fear of the bride.