Why he suffer from sexual phobias?

Why he suffer from sexual phobias?

 

Fear of sexual intercourse is not a major pervert, is not a moral decay, people who run around, but only of some disorders, reasons are more complex. For example, some people had not been properly during sexual development education, or some kind of strong stimulus cannot be formed because the normal role of adulthood would be difficult to complete the appropriate role behavior. That there are two cases: one is the lack of parental love, loneliness, stay in the "narcissism" stage, just got comfort from the acts of masturbation, are satisfied. Another is to be strongly stimulated, such as the one at the time of his minor, responsible for the care of paralysis in the bed of the elders of the opposite sex, to deal with urinary and fecal discharge for her, in his mind, to link the genital and dirty, adult, and general contact, but fear to see genital, fear of sexual intercourse.

 

There are also young people, cannot be successfully completed when the first sexual intercourse sex, due to excessive excitement, fear, tension, resulting in sexual function disorders. If this man is exactly is timid or worry people, then failed for the first time will result in the brain of an exaggerated impression-thinks he is incompetent, and the next time the sexual intercourse becomes more tense, fear of sexual intercourse.

 

What about how to prevent sexual intercourse-phobia? First of all to establish such a strong belief on human sexuality is a natural instinct, I have this ability to the people, like having to learn will sweat, digestive tract. Prior to sexual intercourse, should only be considered successful, and is not considered fail, not to worry about ever found anything, and should start from this time, that "I will succeed." With such ideological and Foundation, has been successful in half.

 

Secondly, with the consent and understanding is also very important. In the treatment of fear of sexual intercourse in Shen e, is the key. Have to give more love, to melt this fear. In addition to the usual and regular discussions on the subject, a jointly read about sexual knowledge of reading, to learn scientific knowledge, know how normal human sexual response. In addition, to encourage active in the sex life, step by step, gradually overcoming fears.