Sexual intercourse fear, is disease not afraid

Sexual intercourse fear, is disease not afraid  

Sometimes when every encounter with during sex, not as active role in sexual behavior, but fear or anxiety, cannot produce experience the fun of orgasm, immediate cause obvious penis cannot erect, this phenomenon is called on medicine sex phobia.

Sex phobia is not a serious cameron, who is not a moral corruption, man, and just the whoring after some of the disorder, cause in the is more complicated. For example, some people in sex during the development of education, or not be properly by some intense stimulation, so cannot form the normal sexual role, adulthood is difficult to complete the corresponding sexual role behavior. Here there are two kind of situations: one kind is lack of parental love, compare loneliness, sexual stay in narcissistic "stage, just from masturbation behavior got comfort, feel satisfied. Another kind is to be stimulated strongly, such as a by underage in his bed, was in charge of paralysis of the opposite sex for her elder, to deal with urine, in their mind, will link the genital and dirty, adulthood, with the general association, but can see genital, fear of sexual intercourse fear.

And some young people, in first when sexual intercourse cannot successfully complete sex, because excessive and excited, fear, tension, cause sexual dysfunction. If just the man belongs to timid or paranoid, then type who first failure will in the brain cause a kind of exaggerated impression - think oneself is sex incompetence, that at the next when sexual intercourse become more nervous, afraid of sex.

So how to control sex phobia? First to establish such in strong faith: human sexuality is a natural instinct, and I was with this ability is like without learning is sweating, will digesting. Before sex, should consider only success, and without regard to failure, don't go to concerns before had found anything from this time, but must begin, affirm "I can succeed." This ideological preparation and foundation, success is half.

Secondly, securing consent and respect, also is very important. In the � E sexual intercourse for fear, is the key. Must give more love, to melt this fear. Except in peacetime can and often on this topic, and discusses the couple's joint reading about sexual knowledge readings, in order to understand the scientific knowledge, understand human normal sexual response. In addition, during sex encourage initiative, gradual, gradually to overcome the fear.