What is sex phobia?

What is sex phobia?

 

Some men with wife every encounter during sex, not as active role in sexual behavior, but fear or anxiety, cannot produce experience the fun of orgasm, immediate cause obvious penis cannot erect, this phenomenon is called on medicine sex phobia.

Sex phobia is not a serious Cameron, who is not a moral corruption, man, and just the whoring after the psychological aspect some disorders, reason is more complicated. For example, some people in ErTongXing psychological during the development of education, or not be properly by some intense stimulation, so cannot form the normal sexual role, adulthood is difficult to complete the corresponding sexual role behavior. Here there are two kind of situations: one kind is lack of parental love, compare loneliness, psychological stay in narcissistic "stage, just from masturbation behavior got comfort, feel satisfied. Another kind is under intense stimulation, such as a man in his minor, responsible for the care of the opposite sex in bed paralyzed for her elder, to deal with urine, in their mind, will female genital and dirty, adulthood, linked with women often contacts, but fear, afraid to see female genital intercourse.

And some young people, in first when sexual intercourse cannot successfully complete sex, because excessive and excited, fear, tension, cause sexual dysfunction. If just the man belongs to timid or paranoid, then type who first failure will in the brain cause a kind of exaggerated impression - think oneself is sex incompetence, that at the next when sexual intercourse become more nervous, afraid of sex.

So how to control sex phobia? First in psychological to establish such a strong faith: human sexuality is a natural instinct, and I was with this ability is like without learning is sweating, will digest food as well. Before sex, should consider only success, and without regard to failure, don't go to concerns before had found anything from this time, but must begin, affirm "I can succeed." This ideological preparation and psychological foundation, success is half.

Secondly, the consent of the wife agreed and respect, also is very important. In the � male sexual intercourse for fear, the wife is the key of E. The wife must give husband more love, to melt this fear. Except in peacetime can and husband often discuss this topic, the couple's joint reading about the sex knowledge readings, with understanding scientific knowledge, understand human normal sexual response. In addition, encourage her husband during sex to take the initiative, gradual, gradually overcome your fears.